Episode 3: Brother, can you spare a dime? Review

Published on 26 September 2024 at 03:25

'Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez Story'

The Menendez brothers Lyle and Erik got caught because of Dr. Oziel. He pissed of his mistress Judalon, who then told the police every secret Dr. Oziel told her about the sessions between the Menendez brothers. Apparently, the doctor recorded all the sessions between the boys (with their approval) and stored all his notes and tapes at different save places to ensure his own safety. For me that seemed a little bit off. In the series the Menendez boys don't come over as trusting people fast, so what let them trust Dr. Oziel that much? 

 

The Menendez brother went from spending to begging! 

Netflix season 2 Monsters: The Lyle and Erik Menendez story

Episode 3: Brother, can you spare a dime? (49 minutes) - Review of the episode 

We see Lyle Menendez being caught at the gates of his parental home in Beverly Hills. Erik Menendez was abroad and was advised by his attorney's office of Robert Shapiro to come back to Amerika, where he is seen being arrested at the airport. Both brothers end up in the same prison, with prison cells next to each other. We see Lyle struggle with his physical appearance and constantly in search for dimes to make phone calls so he can get product to sell and glue for his hair. Erik is struggling with the living conditions in prison where he can’t eat the food, is too scared to take a shower and is basically only living on milk. The struggles shown by the boys may seem small but if we think about all the privileges we have during our freedom, you will think twice before committing a felony.   

 

At some point Lyle writes notes to Erik in which he explains how they can escape prison. These notes where found in the cell of Erik, which resulted in Lyle being transferred, separating the boys. We see another breadcrumb that points out there was a deeper motive to the crimes the brothers committed. We see Erik being attracted to a male prisoner and bonding with him. Robert Shapiro who was the lawyer of the boys did not believe in their innocence and wanted to arrange a deal. He advised the boys to be more sympathetic and remorseful in court, yet their eyes and body language fed the public opinion of the boys being rich and spoiled brats who killed their parents only for money. The scenes with the attorneys and family where a bit boring, it didn’t go well with the flow of this episode. I do appreciate the scene being cut to court when Shapiro explained that the boys did not follow his advice and looked like psychopaths. It was a joke to the actors playing the characters.

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We see the attorney Leslie Abramson (Ari Graynor) picking up this case in defense of Erik. Erik confesses the deep secret behind the motive of their crime to murder their parents. Abramson gets to know that Lyle was sexually molesting Erik when he was around the age of 5 or 6. This was really shocking to know, because every part in the series was suggesting the father José Menendez was in some way sexually molesting the boys. I would have never thought Lyle would do this to his own brother.

 

When you watch the scene further you get the confession of Erik that he never blamed Lyle for the sexual abuse because their father José was first sexually molesting Lyle. José started molesting Erik after he stopped molesting Lyle. José made it some kind of Spartan warrior training act, and explained that the warriors (boys) did this to get tough! With the Lyle and Erik Menendez case, you expect some kind of abuse as a motive. It is still shocking to hear about it, and you empathize with the Menendez boys for their suffering all these years. Still, I wonder why they killed their mother, is there also another motive behind that?

 

This episode ends with the shocking revelation what Erik would do to survive the interactions with his father. He shares the cinnamon solution he tried and the lemon juice that he was given to num his tastebuds. We see Abramson processing this new revelation and realizing she just might get a case she could win. The detail of the abuse makes you want to set the boys free immediately.

 

This episode was directed by Paris Barclay and written by Ian Brennan & David McMillan. The flow from episode 2 tot 3 was natural. I didn’t notice the switch. The scenes in prison were very well portrayed. The struggle of Lyle, you could feel him being dehumanised. He was holding on to his appearance and image. Both the boys had their own Monsters to fight in prison. This episode started and ended good. The middle felt a bit low and slow.

 

I am now wondering what episode 4 will bring for new perspective.
Will we empathise more with Lyle Menendez & Erik Menendez, or sympathise with José Menendez and Kitty Menendez? 

 

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